Relationships

Lots of boys and girls think their lives will have meaning if they find a partner who wants nothing else in life but them. That’s not healthy. That’s falling in love with idea of a person,not being in love with the actual person. Relationships are not fun-filled fantasies that will satisfy your emptiness. They are hardwork. Don’t be in a rush to get in one.
A good relationship is when two people accept each other’s past,support each other’s present,and love each other enough to encourage each other’s future. So don’t rush love,find a partner who encourages you to grow,who won’t cling to you,who will let you go out into the world,and trust that you will come back. This is what true love is all about.

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36 comments

  1. londonblind · February 11, 2016

    Very true X

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  2. Amitav Chowdhury · February 11, 2016

    Wise words. Very well said.

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  3. NΓ­cia · February 12, 2016

    I think all teenagers think like that and they have failed relationships and understand, later, what went wrong. Some never do and will never have a “real” relationship. Love takes effort. πŸ™‚

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  4. Perfect Blemish · February 13, 2016

    I agree to you. Love takes effort. Its something very magical.
    Btw sorry could’nt reply early

    Like

  5. Nitin · February 16, 2016

    It’s so true. I also feel the same. It is a work. Nothing good comes free. Nice writeup πŸ™‚

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  6. Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

    Very nice !!

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    • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

      Thankyouu πŸ™‚

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        You are welcome….
        It had a blend of both pragmatic and emotional aspect… Though by virtue of being an emotional fool, I just cannot understand the pragmatic approach of relationship and reciprocity which is often expected in relationship…. Selfless love is the best I presume πŸ™‚

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

        I guess you are very knowledgable about things in life. But I am still not sure about alot of things in life. And I myself is a emotional fool in life that I am out everything. Moreover it just what I saw. πŸ™‚

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        I do not consider myself to be knowledgeable but collected few experience of loses in my life and especially the loss of my maa.

        But trust me being emotional, sensitive, are greatest virtues that a person can possess. It comes from inner power of love, confidence, and fearlessness…
        πŸ™‚

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

        Sorry to know about maa. And I know value of maa. I hope some days these virtues help. But till I don’t think so.

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        Do you regret of being an emotional person…? If the answer is yes, then trust me, you are blessed, in this material world, people try cover it by the mask of pragmatism but at the end of the day, you will smile because your heart will be alive…

        I know being a stranger, I can’t say you to trust me on these issues but it will help you:)

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

        I don’t know whether I should regret it or not. Somethings I do but other I feel like it’s my identity, why loosing it for someone who done even worth it.

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        I can understand your emotions,
        But it is practically not possible beforehand about a person… So what I believe is that, if I want to do something for someone, I do it without any expectation… I love a person knowing it has no value but still I pray for her heath and success without even knowing where she is!!
        But I feel happy that I am honest to my feeling and emotions…

        It is painful.. & difficult but trust me it will help eventually..

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

        Thankyou for sharing and helping πŸ™‚

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        Am helping myself…
        Just tc, you are worthy to be and remain happy… God bless you πŸ™‚

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

        Thankyou once again for blessing.
        Always hoping same for you. πŸ™‚

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        Thank you…
        It means a lot… At 26 I have the goal that when I will leave, I shall never r regret for my deeds.. I shall be useful to others.. Am glad that you are feeling better πŸ™‚

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

        High five βœ‹
        You and I think alike. At the age of 17 ir almost 18 I have same goal along other goals also.

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        Ye!
        Cheers to love life, friendship and light !!

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 22, 2016

        Cheers πŸ˜‡

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      • Beparvah !! · April 22, 2016

        πŸ™‚

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        My wishes and prayers will be there for you too… !!

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      • Perfect Blemish · April 21, 2016

        So are mine. πŸ™‚

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      • Beparvah !! · April 21, 2016

        Don’t be sorry, Maa is with me. I still talk to her, every second.. πŸ™‚

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  7. bloggeray · April 22, 2016

    So true! Yesterday I read a post on relationships by a person who got divorced after 16 years of marriage and there too, the basic theme was same – relationships are hard work and you need to trust each other fully to be able to love fully.
    Lovely post and thanks a ton for following my blog. Happy blogging; God bless. πŸ™‚

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  8. Eri Hunt · August 20, 2016

    Wow this is so powerful ! I totally agree thank you for sharing .

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